We’ve all heard the saying, “When one door closes, another opens.” It offers comfort and hope in knowing that change leads us to new opportunities. But what about that space in between—when we’re not quite through the old door and not yet into the new one?
This concept came up in the first women’s circles I hosted, and it resonated with so many of us. It’s a powerful visual to imagine ourselves in a hallway between two doors. This in-between space can be full of feelings of uncertainty and change, and recognizing it can be incredibly nourishing.
When we close one door, it’s often accompanied by a sense of completion and in some situations even a bit of grief. That closed door can represent so much of our comfort, our safety, and our growth. Letting go can be challenging, and it’s natural to feel a bit lost as we leave behind what’s familiar.
As we face the new door that’s just beginning to open, it’s normal to feel a mix of excitement and fear. This new path holds so much potential, but stepping into it can feel intimidating. The hallway we find ourselves in during this transition is a space where we experience both the end and the beginning, the duality of life. It’s where emotions can run high, and we might feel confused and vulnerable.
Being in this hallway is a big part of the journey. It’s a space that allows us to fully transition from one phase to another. And maybe we can even see it as a nourishing space. So of course we might feel a lot of the emotions that come up during this time. Embracing this hallway can be comforting because it reminds us that we are exactly where we need to be, even if it feels a bit uncomfortable.
Having support during this transitional time can make a world of difference. Sharing this experience with others who understand and can offer compassion can be incredibly supportive. As we navigate this phase, having someone to hold our hand, whether a friend, mentor, or a supportive community, can help on this journey.
This is one of the reasons I’m so passionate about Women’s circles. They offer a space to connect, share, and support each other through these transitional times. If you find yourself in this hallway, know that you’re not alone. It’s okay to feel a range of emotions, and having a community to lean on can be super supportive.
So, if you’re in that hallway right now, I invite you to explore how you can embrace it. It is a vital part of our journey and we will be in another hallway again at some point. And if you need a hand to hold or a space to share, I invite you to seek out a community or join our virtual circles. I know and trust that together, we can navigate these hallways with a bit more ease and step confidently into the new doors that await us.
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